At some point when we are getting older; we dream about our future, some of us dream about being doctors, lawyers, singers but some of us dream about love. Love to me is to give everything you have to someone, to be kind, to be respectful, to be loyal, a friend, a lover, to be honest, to be intelligent, and to be able to trust them with your eyes closed and your heart open. We all have those friends that have shared a story of their ungrateful husband and/or boyfriend and we all can admit that we say to ourselves I will NEVER tolerate that from anyone. We say to our loved one and ask, ”why are you doing that to yourself ", but I can tell you this don't ever say never. You don't ever know until it happens to you. When I found out my boyfriend was being unfaithful; I felt this pain in my stomach. I felt shaky and I had a million thoughts coming thru my head all at once. The first thing I did was call him and yell from the top of my lungs WHYYYYY???? Of course, automatically you say it's over don't call me, don't talk to me, don't touch me, I don't want to see you and you wish him the very worst in his life. Then it gets tricky all that anger goes away after you have called every single best friend you have, once you vent and sit down and talk to your own thoughts it crosses your mind, should I give him a chance? He sounds like he is deeply sorry for what he has done, he sends flowers, calls non stop, cries, begs, apologizes and you say to yourself I really love this man, everyone makes mistakes, he really, really is trying, if he didn't want to be with me he would be with that other girl instead of fighting for me. RIGHT??? So, do you call the other girl and start problems with her??? Reality is it's not her fault. We all have choices, he had a choice to be faithful or not and he chose not to. So do I still call her?? Of course we call, because we feel we need some type of closure and see what the hell was this all about and very rarely you find a woman that had an idea about you, but then you come across those women that really don't care, they have probably been searching their whole life to be with someone and will take whatever MAN comes their way. In my case , the woman knew about me and actually thought to herself that she had a relationship with him and it's like how do you have a "relationship" with someone that you don't know where he spends all his days and nights. Well he is a good liar to me and he was a good liar to her too, so after you have spoken to the girl, you find yourself thinking so when he said this, he was really doing this. And YOU have a choice, to walk away and start fresh or stay and fight for something that you have put so much time, effort and LOVE into and that’s when you make the decision and you decide to stay.... Can you honestly think that you can be that exception, that the man you are with will do a 360 and become the man you deserve??? Or is he the DOG he showed you he really is?? We all want to be that story that once he knew he was about to lose you, he is just going to hold on tight and never let you go.